xfs: use a lockref for the xfs_dquot reference count

xfs: use a lockref for the xfs_dquot reference count

The xfs_dquot structure currently uses the anti-pattern of using the
in-object lock that protects the content to also serialize reference
count updates for the structure, leading to a cumbersome free path.
This is partially papered over by the fact that we never free the dquot
directly but always through the LRU.  Switch to use a lockref instead and
move the reference counter manipulations out of q_qlock.

To make this work, xfs_qm_flush_one and xfs_qm_flush_one are converted to
acquire a dquot reference while flushing to integrate with the lockref
"get if not dead" scheme.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Carlos Maiolino <cem@kernel.org>