can: netlink: add CAN_CTRLMODE_XL_TMS flag

can: netlink: add CAN_CTRLMODE_XL_TMS flag

The Transceiver Mode Switching (TMS) indicates whether the CAN XL
controller shall use the PWM or NRZ encoding during the data phase.

The term "transceiver mode switching" is used in both ISO 11898-1 and
CiA 612-2 (although only the latter one uses the abbreviation TMS). We
adopt the same naming convention here for consistency.

Add the CAN_CTRLMODE_XL_TMS flag to the list of the CAN control modes.

Add can_validate_xl_flags() to check the coherency of the TMS flag.
That function will be reused in upcoming changes to validate the other
CAN XL flags.

Signed-off-by: Vincent Mailhol <mailhol@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Oliver Hartkopp <socketcan@hartkopp.net>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20251126-canxl-v8-6-e7e3eb74f889@pengutronix.de
Signed-off-by: Marc Kleine-Budde <mkl@pengutronix.de>