gpuvm: remove gem.gpuva.lock_dep_map

gpuvm: remove gem.gpuva.lock_dep_map

Since all users of gem.gpuva.lock_dep_map now rely on the mutex directly
in gpuva, we may remove it. Whether the mutex is used is now tracked by
a flag in gpuvm rather than by whether lock_dep_map is null.

Note that a GEM object may not be pushed to multiple gpuvms that
disagree on the value of this new flag. But that's okay because a single
driver should use the same locking scheme everywhere, and a GEM object
is driver specific (when a GEM is exported with prime, a new GEM object
instance is created from the backing dma-buf).

The flag is present even with CONFIG_LOCKDEP=n because the intent is
that the flag will also cause vm_bo cleanup to become deferred. However,
that will happen in a follow-up patch.

Reviewed-by: Boris Brezillon <boris.brezillon@collabora.com>
Signed-off-by: Alice Ryhl <aliceryhl@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250827-gpuva-mutex-in-gem-v3-3-bd89f5a82c0d@google.com
[ Use lockdep_is_held() instead of lock_is_held(). - Danilo ]
Signed-off-by: Danilo Krummrich <dakr@kernel.org>