creation/removal is via normal VFS paths; make ->mkdir() and ->symlink()
use d_make_persistent(); ->rmdir() and ->unlink() - d_make_discardable()
instead of dput() and that's it.
d_make_persistent() works for unhashed just fine...
Note that only persistent dentries are ever hashed there; unusual absense
of ->d_delete() in dentry_operations is due to that - anything that has
refcount reach 0 will be unhashed there, so it won't get to checking
->d_delete anyway.