smb: server: make use of smbdirect_socket_parameters.negotiate_timeout_msec and chang...

smb: server: make use of smbdirect_socket_parameters.negotiate_timeout_msec and change to 5s

The server negotiations timer is just 5 seconds in Windows, so use the
same. See [MS-SMBD] 3.1.7.2 Connection Arrival.

Cc: Namjae Jeon <linkinjeon@kernel.org>
Cc: Steve French <smfrench@gmail.com>
Cc: Tom Talpey <tom@talpey.com>
Cc: linux-cifs@vger.kernel.org
Cc: samba-technical@lists.samba.org
Signed-off-by: Stefan Metzmacher <metze@samba.org>
Acked-by: Namjae Jeon <linkinjeon@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Steve French <stfrench@microsoft.com>